In our current age, one finds it difficult to raise children. Many dangers exist in our society and parents feel responsible for everything their child does. Furthermore, they often feel guilty when working long hours and are mostly away from home.
It is very harmful when a child is under supervision CONSTANTLY! From the moment they are born, eyes are always fixed upon them worrying about their development and health. Nowadays, a child cannot learn from their mistakes or the consequences of their actions. To the contrary, the parent thinks that an explanation is enough for children to understand why a certain behaviour is unbecoming.
Edification does not work like that! The child has to learn from the consequences of their actions. The parent has to give them room and time to develop in their own pace. Instead of constantly fussing with everything pertaining to their child, they should look to their own happiness first. Children want happy parents, that know what they want in life and are creative in their search for solutions to problems that come up.
For the above reasons it is important for parents to learn proper edification methods, in order to gain confidence when confronting various situations. Parents need to act consciously toward the child, to be aware of what they request and why. They must learn what matters and trust their child to behave properly.
The goal is a happy and harmonious family life. Parents can enjoy their children much more when they listen to them and stop having demands in ways that are very tiring to their parents.
WE HAVE CHILDREN TO ENJOY THEM AND BE PROUD OF THEM!
Program suggestion for parent education in your home
1. Self Image
How does self image form and in what way can we encourage the child to obtain a positive a self image?
In what way can you let a child know that you accept it? Who has the problem? Active listening and the I-message. Gordon Method.
3. How do we transform unwanted behaviour? Learning theory program
4. Healthy and unhealthy thoughts
How can we achieve changes in challenging situations with the child?
5. Mobile and electronic games
Nearly all subjects include experiential games, exercises and additional written homework. The objective is always that parents realize something, or to learn a different confrontation technique, inasmuch it is possible in the duration of a meeting.